It has been the hardest time to get Justin more involved. He says it is my day and I should be planning it. How really do you get the groom more involved without gettting upset with them? I want to get everyone together to let them know who will be in the wedding, but he doesn't want to take the time to do that and said he has already told them they are in it. He has only told his best man. I have 8 bridesmaids and well he could only come up with 6. I've mentioned maybe putting a few extra in there but he does not want that. How do you get him to just agree and want to help or give his opinion on things? I'm struggling in this area.